Thursday, August 24, 2017

The Shakespeare Diet


I wonder when Shakespeare penned the words for Hamlet to utter….

Refrain to-night;
And that shall lend a kind of easiness
To the next abstinence, the next more easy;
For use almost can change the stamp of nature,
And either master the devil or throw him out
With wondrous potency.

….if he knew that he would be speaking to the modern day woman starting yet another diet!

Refrain so that there is a kind of easiness to the next abstinence?  

I suppose Ralph Waldo Emerson’s mentor-like words…“That which we persist in doing becomes easier for us to do; not that the nature of the thing itself is changed, but that our power to do is increased.”…should apply to the determined dieter as well don't you agree?

Does every “NO I WON’T HAVE THAT” lead to an easier “NO I WON’T HAVE THAT” later in the day? Perhaps each little victory is not a stand-alone deal but a building block added onto our internal fire-wall that protects us from temptation and allows us to move on down the narrow path to self mastery.

I needed to hear James E. Faust's words that “Self-Mastery is the ultimate test of our character.”

A reminder that self care is not a matter of self indulgence but self respect. So, onward brave dieters! Let's quote the bard and “Master the devil or throw him out.”



Thursday, August 10, 2017

The dam wall


“I think a badger dug a hole, and the water soaked through; it didn't go over the top.  They said there was two or three badger holes in the dam that was left.  That's what started it, a badger dug a hole in it.  There was little streams of water coming out.  I rode over a little further.  I knew it would go out.  I could see it was starting to crumble”.

I was doing a google search this morning and came upon this totally unrelated interview conducted by Oren Jones in 1987 with Arthur Williams who was remembering when the Deep Creek Dam washed out, in the spring of 1907, or 1908.

I immediately felt akin to Mr Williams when he realized that this was a serious condition and he needed to do something!

His reaction was to run and warn everyone down stream that a flood was coming!

Forest fires have been blazing in remote areas surrounding my town for days now. The smoke is thick and I am sequestering myself at home with the air filters on high and my head throbbing-throbbing-throbbing.  It gives me time to think.

But alas, my thoughts turn to “Oh Woe is me”.  And there…right there is the metaphorical badger.  Digging a hole in the protective psychological wall I’ve built to safeguard myself from floods of negative emotions. Tears begin to flow and I realize that if I allow myself to linger long in those thoughts, all that will be left in my barricade will be two or three badger holes. I know "it will go out" if I don’t do something.

I could do the same as Arthur Williams and warn everyone that a flood is coming…but hmmmm the same amount of energy I’d use for that could be better utilized in bringing out my old tried and true tool kit that holds powerful patches like…..



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And suddenly!  Ta Dah!....

Moving on with my day!  Whew....