I remember so well the day that I boarded the #7 bus in Firenze and headed into the Tuscan countryside toward the hilltop town of Fiesole. My goal was to find Villa San Michele.
The bus worked its way on narrow roads winding up the hill providing views of Florence that became more and more distant with each hairpin turn. And finally…Fiesole. I stepped off the bus and was immediately enticed with the intoxicating aromas of several charming outdoor cafes in the town center but I only stopped long enough to ask a waiter for directions. A fair distanced walk and a steep climb up a long driveway later I was treated with the view of the incredible villa, originally a monastery founded in the early years of the 15th century for the Franciscan monks and then completely renovated in 1600 with the façade and loggia designed by Michelangelo and today, an elegant hotel.
Everything I had studied about Divine Proportion (the Golden Ratio or Phi) in my college Art History class stood prominently before me. I smiled; as I absorbed the beauty that is the result of Divine Proportioning; took a few photos and then simply walked through the front door as Michelangelo surely had done 400 years before. I found my way to the loggia where I was seated and served a delectable lunch, as only the Tuscans can do, with a view of Florence in the distance and feeling the serenity of the peaceful phi arches over my head. Pure bliss. A golden moment I will put on my 3x5 card tonight.
As I write this my mind wanders to other remarkable works of art based upon this principle that I have had the pleasure of seeing: The master of Divine Proportioning, the genius Leonardo Da Vinci’s
Annunciation in the Uffizi Museum in Florence, Michelangelo’s ceiling in the Sistine Chapel in Vatican City near Rome and his marble sculpture of Christ and Mary called the
Pieta in St. Peter’s Basilica; Notre Dame Cathedral in Paris and Leonardo’s
Mona Lisa in the Louvre to name a few. These highly intellectual artists and architects didn’t create the principle; they were just brilliant enough to recognize the mathematical methods and geometrical designs that begin to capture the masterful formula of beauty in God’s creations.
Something that these inspired artists were not able to see however, but now is clearly evident with modern science is that our very DNA follows these same Golden Ratio parameters. My interest in phi has recently been rekindled by the studies showing that our genes, damaged through environmental toxins and emotional stress, have the ability to reset (epigenetics). And according to one of the world’s top geneticists, Kazuo Murakamo, Ph.D. it has been “proven that our DNA is not just a static data bank. On the contrary, it has the dynamic potential to have desirable latent regions activated – or active, undesirable regions silenced – by psychological input alone”. (
Quoted from the book – The Golden Lifestyle Ratio Diet) And the book's authors further state that Dr. Murakamo’s “genetic thinking” concept reminds us that we have more power than we realize in altering our life perspectives, thereby resetting our happiness set point to an upward, expanding Golden Spiral operated by the complex Golden Ratio principles in our DNA.
Due to the high emotional stress and the resulting effects the last few years as well as the fact that I haven’t yet had a truly good night’s sleep since before Dale died I figure my genes are in need of a little resetting as it seems that what they deem to be normal now is not what I consider to be normal at all! To think that I can actually do something about it psychologically is intriguing.
One of the psychological (genetic thinking) techniques used in the book (as mentioned above - written by Robert Friedman, M.D. and Matthew Cross) to upgrade genetic potential is to look back over your life and determine certain ages where you felt you were at your happiest,
with yourself. And then for each of those ages prepare a 3x5 card adding sensory memory boosters: Visual, Auditory, Kinesthetic, Taste and Smell to give a complete experience to the memory and then make time to take "time-travel experiences" to recapture and remember how you felt at that time and then allow the rejuvenating and regenerating qualities to become the you of NOW.
Oh the power of the mind!
Watching the coverage of the Olympics it’s clear to see that the athletes must use the power of their minds to compete at their optimum physical potential.
When my mother was in her later stages of dementia I would call her from my home nearly a thousand miles away every odd numbered night for several years and read to her from her beautifully written autobiography. Mother had a delightful childhood brimming with the love of four older sisters and a mother and father whom she respected and adored and who clearly loved her. Although a humble home, her father being a farmer, the 5 girls were talented and classy and devoted to one another, a veritable
Little Women lifestyle.
Caught in the magical spell of her own words we meandered happily through the adventures and thrills, the tastes and homemade-bread-smells as well as the growing pains and learning experiences of her youth and into young womanhood. I would call her at night, after she had been tucked into her bed by the attending nurse. As a great blessing, she remembered me by voice when I called, always calling me by name and saying "Oh how are you! I'm so glad you called" and she remembered my sister the same way who called on the even days, week after week, month after month and year after year. Mother couldn't remember if the person who had just been there to visit was a close friend or relative or someone she had never met before, and she could't remember what she had eaten for dinner or if she had even been out of bed all day (which she always had). She remembered that she had been married but didn't know where her husband was and was saddened over and over again to hear that he had died. But as I read her the stories she had written she would laugh and sigh and remember each and every detail to the finest point. At one time I mispronounced the name of a childhood friend and she quickly corrected me. When in her writing she mentioned a song, we would sing it and she would remember every word. Each night she would thank me from the bottom of her beautiful heart and say that she would be able to sleep well now because of the happy memories and the joy they brought to her. For those moments on those nights she allowed her mind to visualize and re-live those time-travel experiences and it was rejuvenating.
So as I continue to try to move forward with my life and even though by nature I have always been positive and look for the good and the uplifting, I will seek to revisit and embrace the peak health times in my past and if it can reset and rejuvenate, Hurray. To recognize and embrace the beauty of divine proportions from
within my mind and my body as well as recognizing it in beautiful mortal artwork and especially in God's own artwork is a golden opportunity.
And in preparation for any forgetfulness that may come my way down the road...I will have my autobiography and some 3x5 cards to stimulate, gladden and reinvigorate my mind.
Which brings us to the writing assignment for today...which is to prepare your own 3x5 cards - look back over your life and determine certain ages where you felt you were at your happiest, with yourself. And then for each of those ages prepare a 3x5 card adding sensory memory boosters to give a complete experience to the memory:
Visual (a favorite scene, person, picture, smile, painting: any evocative images)
Auditory (a favoite song, the voice of a loved one, cheering crowds, laughter, sounds of nature - waves, wind, rain, crickets, etc)
Kinesthetic (i.e. what you were wearing, the weather etc. Pay special attention to how you felt in your body at the time and what you were thinking),
Taste (a particularly wonderful meal or beverage and how it tasted; how delicious was it? sweet, spicy, cold, warm or hot?)
Smell (any scents or aromas associated with the scene - food, flowers, perfume or cologne, freshly cut grass, the ocean etc. Your sense of smell is intricately connected with emoitional memories in the brain's limbic system. It plays a particularly powerful role in both encoding memories and in supporting their recall.
This 3x5 card idea and the above descriptions are from the book: The Golden Lifestyle Diet by Robert Friedman, MD and Matthew Cross.